KimmyKaTt

Hi I am Vanity....please read ALL of my profile, and you must also message me before a friend request will be accepted

About me:
I have been told I make a hot and sexy crossdresser, and a very attractive boy, I'm really down to earth and very easy going. I value friendship and honesty above all things, and hope to connect with people that feel the same.

I have been dressing on and off for my entire life. But did not fully accept my fetish until about 2012, thanks to the support of some very special ppl. Coming out to my local kink / leather community and even a few of my close vanilla friends and family was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. It has been awesome! I'm never going back in the closet. I have never felt so free and loved in my whole life. I fear very little now days after accepting and embracing my gender fluidity.

I have finally become the goth girl that I wanted to find and date back in highschool. I love black lipstick and way to much eye liner. I love slipping into shiny and or ruffly clothing particularly Lolita, Gothic, Punk, PVC, wet look, vinyl, and costumes. I can dress pretty much any time I choose, spare time permitting, I have a ton of fun stuff to play dress up with, and my own room dedicated to "Girl Time"....more toys coming soon.

My Kinks:
I consider myself a switch with the right people. Top / Dom to some, Bottom / sub or slave to others. It all depends on the energy and the connection of the people I am playing with. I am open to top for most BDSM games with established kink community members of all ages, genders, and orientations. I will only bottom for select people I feel drawn to, I am a picky bitch bottom.

I love to dress up and play games. Role playing is a big part of my sexuality, from my fem side to games I really enjoy using my imagination in the bedroom or dungeon.

If you would like to play deff come chat with me at the next play party and lets see if we can have some fun!!!

As a bottom:
I enjoy light pain play, Spankings and Canings, Light Impact, Age and Pet play, Restraint Bondage, Pegging, Forced fem, Forced bi, D/s and M/s, Domestic Servitude, Erotic embarrassment, Swinging with sane ppl, Knife play...no blood, Any kind of role playing, Costumes, Dollification, Sissification, Shaving pussy.....and I find more every day, or make them up with friends, ask me about fish play!!!

As a slave/sub
I am feed on such a deep level by providing flawless service to those I choose to share my passions with. From formal edicate to general help. I thrive on the opportunities to give my time, energy, talents, and love to those who deserve it. I have learned alot about myself and my feelings about slavery. I know I have a service heart but I will not serve unconditionally. I expect very little in return for my service but reciprocation and feeling valued are the keystones to my continued emotional health in a power exchange dynamic.

As a Top:
I am experienced in more BDSM games than I can count from impact to rope I am a jack of all trades and master of some. I consider myself a service top when it comes to pain play as I am not a sadist by nature. I do enjoy taking bottoms on a thrill ride of brain drugs and sensations.

As a Master/Mistress:
As a Master/Mistress I enjoy dedicated slaves/subs who know how to handle themselves and are willing to put their trust in me. I work hard to make the dynamic reciprocal and I expect my servants to do the same. Emotionally healthy connection and clear communication are key factors in all my dynamics. I work to better the lives of my servants though life coaching, support, and challenging them to be their best at all times. I value the service provided by my servants above all things and reward them accordingly.... from gifts, play, activities, and more I am a very generous person for those who are willing to do the work.

Who I would like to meet:
I am looking to make new friends in Utah and surrounding states that would like to get to know me, and help one another explore the crazy world of kink. I would like to meet.....Singles, Couples, and Groups associated with CD/TV and Gender Play, and Like minded ppl of all stripes.